Married in Brazil!

Hi Everyone!

We made it back to Brazil! The journey home is a blog entry unto itself, which should be published shortly assuming I don't get behind in my class plannings!

But how nice to back in Brazil again! Sitting at my little table, I'm having some breakfast- grilled mozzarella cheese sandwich and cafe com leite. This cheese sandwich for breakfast thing is totally Brazilian, anything bread-y/cheesy in the morning. It wasn't too strange for me to adjust to after the year of the baguette in Paris. Brazilians don't really eat sweet things in the morning. Still, Gui and his mom will gladly accept if I make pancakes or muffins. :)

The weather is finally giving us some relief. Well, relief on the one hand in that it's not incredibly hot and muggy. No, fall is in the air...in March!?! My brain just can't seem to wrap itself around this concept yet. March=Spring!! What's going on!?! But I digress. The point is: Yay!! It's cooling off! At the same time, we're smack in the middle of the rainy season! Bummer. I'm not talking just a little drizzling, I'm talking pouring showers every evening that leave whole neighborhoods flooded! By the way, one of my favorite Brazilian songs is about the "Waters of March." In this version sung by two Brazilian music giants, Tom Jobim and Elis Regina, they make rain sound so happy! Check it out! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=srfP2JlH6ls&feature=related



So a lot of people have been asking, "How's married life?" But I couldn't really say during our month long honeymoon what's it's really like. I think I can finally answer that question as we're starting our new life and settling into our routines.

And the verdict is... Married life is happy! As is life in Brazil! :D I have many things to be so grateful for. Already, this second arrival in Brazil has been so different from when I first came in the fall, I mean spring. See! It's hard! Hehe.

But so many factors have changed. For one, I have a job; a place to go during the day; responsibilities; time constraints. I needed that. I need some structure to function. I'm not sure I could handle retirement... Maybe that's when I start my bakery. :D

But back to my job, it's just great. A gift from God. I found it when I was just out on a long walk one day months ago, before we got engaged. I was in total despair, unable to find a job or to figure out where my life was going. As I was walking, I had seen a language school and passing it on the way back, I summoned my courage and marched up the steep hill (how intimidating, this school staring down at me!) and in my very broken Portuguese, I managed to speak with someone about job opportunities. She told me there was nothing until the next school year started in January. At the time, I wasn't sure I would stay that long, so I just got her email address and went sadly on my way.

A few months later, when we got engaged, my immediate thought, well, after the obvious thoughts like, "Wow! I'm engaged!," "I'm engaged?," and "Am I really engaged?," after these sorts of thoughts, my first practical one was, "Now that I'm definitely staying here for a while, I can get a job!" Something that really helped was that I would be married to Gui so gone was my worry of finding jobs that would provide me a work visa (which as I found through countless interviews, is nearly impossible). This left me to take jobs that were willing to pay me illegally and very poorly. My big fear was still being unable to find work. I was determined not to spend any more time stuck in the house all day by myself!

I remembered that school I had visited and the nice woman there, and finding her email, I wrote to her expressing interest in the coming year. It turns out that she is the school's director! The following week I had an interview and was hired that day! And what a great job it's been so far. They've been giving me formal training, the other teachers are sweet as can be, the school has very nice facilities, my bosses are agreeing to pay me a great salary even while I wait for my work permit to come, and they even helped me open my first Brazilian bank account! It's a great place to work all around. Plus, it's just a 10 minute bus ride from home! When you consider that Gui and Ana have a 2 hour commute both ways, this is quite exceptional!

This is my second full week of teaching, and I really enjoy it! I have only intermediate and advanced students, so they have at least 3 years of English under their belt. I'm teaching groups of all different sizes and ages. Some are middle school, some high school, and my night groups have a lot of adults. The variety keeps things interesting, and I really like getting to my students. They are of course very curious about an American living in their town. :P

Brazilians in general are very curious about foreigners. My middle schoolers are always asking things like "Teacher, do you speak Portuguese with your husband?" Brazilian students call their English teacher "Teacher." I tried to get them to say Ms. Maggie or Mrs. Oliveira or Mrs. Bullock, but have since given up. Every English teacher is "Teacher." I was telling Gui, the only other time I've heard someone called teacher is like in the Bible people talking to Jesus. :P Teacher seems far too great a title for me. haha

Besides having a job, which has really made me feel more like I have a life here, being married, and being assured of me and Gui's relationship as opposed to when we were still dating is so much less nerve-racking. And as we're having a lot of fun playing house! He's very sweet and helps with cleaning whenever he can! :) I just hope it continues this way!

I love learning to cook Brazilian food. I'm getting better and better about knowing my water to beans ratio for the pressure cooker, and I already have rice down. Brazilian grocery stores have barely anything that is almost ready to serve. Little food comes in cans or pre-made packaging. You want beans? Go get a bag of dry beans, soak it, and cook it yourself! Vegetables, fruits, meats, and fish come fresh from the markets and are just wonderful! And I'm constantly discovering fruits and vegetables that I've never even heard of!

So how is married life so far, you ask? Well, I think this is a question you spend your whole life figuring out, but married life in Brazil, working as an English teacher, learning Portuguese, making rice and beans, is a lot of fun! And as Gui and I pray about Grad schools and possibilities of moving after his graduation in December, I can't wait to see where God leads us next!